What should we provide to our Children?

I guess most of us have got married and have children. We all understand what it means to have children and moreover the joy of being father and mother. Every moment we spend with our children worth more than anything. Every tiredness are gone when we see our children smiling. Nothing can buy us the happiness which we get through our children.
BUT children are also the ones who hurt us more than anything in the world. Parents who had a single room where they raised their four children. They had no problem adjusting with the four children in such a small room, happily they were raised, educated and finally they got married now the same old parents starts to irritate and disappoint them. Even they don't have rooms for their parents in a house which has four rooms.  Their father raise them (four) all in a single room but now their four roomed house doesn't have place for their old parents.
Not everywhere but in many places I have witnessed old parents are treated as the torn shoes. When the shoe was new and shiny they were happy and proud about it but now when it is torn, it is just a garbage, ready to be thrown in the dustbin.
Those who have not yet got married are also in the queue, one-day they will have wives, husband and then children.
Having said so I consider parenting is the greatest responsibility in the planet. Not only children can be strong shoulders in the old age but also they hold the future of the planet.
Therefore the simple question anyone can ask is "What should we provide to our Children"? Hereby I have furnished a few lines in connection to parenting, if you agree with me let us practice but if you don't simply make a comment and let me know:

We all desire to give the best of bests to our children. We provide them food, shelter, clothing, education ect. In the run to give the best to our children, we skip the most important of all, that is the "Word of God". We do not introduce them the God we believe. We push them to be busy in the secular world to compete with the group of so called intelligents. (For your kind information I am not against secular schools)
We happily allow them to skip the worship service, when we see there are important things behind to be done as they present.
Many children of the preachers are turning atheist. Why is this happening? Here is a short story please spend some time to read it:

A couple had two little boys, aged eight and ten, who were excessively mischievous.
The two were always getting into trouble and their parents could be assured that if any mischief occurred in their town their two young sons were in some way involved. The parents were at their wits end as to what to do about their sons' behavior.
When they heard that a Preacher in town had been successful in disciplining children, they decided to take them to the Preacher.
The Preacher agreed to speak with the boys, but asked to see them individually. The eight-year-old went to meet with him first. The Preacher sat the boy down and asked him sternly, "Where is God?"
The boy made no response, so the Preacher repeated the question in an even sterner tone, "Where is God?"
Again the boy made no attempt to answer, so the Preacher raised his voice even more and shook his finger in the boy's face, "WHERE IS GOD?"
At that, the boy bolted from the room and ran directly home slamming himself in his closet. His older brother followed him into the closet and said, "What happened?"
The younger brother replied, "We are in BIG trouble this time. God is missing and they think we did it!

The boy didn't know where God is. He was indeed in need to know God. I repeat, We need to know God. 
  1. The first thing we provide to our children is to ''INTRODUCE YOUR CHILDREN, THE GOD YOU WORSHIP'' 
TO BE CONTINUED>>>>>

Joseph Khati

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